Making Friends
When your child reaches adulthood, the “making friends” question can feel heavier, because the supports that existed in school often fade and loneliness can become quieter but deeper. Many autistic adults want connection, yet social communication differences, anxiety, and past rejection can make it hard to start and sustain friendships.
What helps most is shifting from “be more social” to “find the right settings.” Interest based groups are often easier than open ended mingling: gaming nights, hobby clubs, volunteer teams, faith communities, or autism specific social groups. Organizations like Association for Autism and Neurodiversity (AANE) run social activities and groups designed to help autistic adults connect in a structured, welcoming way. The Autism Society also highlights building social connections through self advocacy, clear boundaries, and supportive environments.
Online community can be a bridge. On Facebook, look for moderated parent and autistic adult groups, plus local chapters. For example, the Autism…